Why Some Women Don’t Orgasm During Sex | GinaConspiracy
In today's video we're talking about why some women don't orgasm during sex Hi everyone, I'm Kasey Lafferty Registered Psychotherapist & Registered Marriage and Family Therapist and I specialize in Sex Therapy
Now, we all want to be sexually satisfied and we all want our partners to be sexually satisfied There's so much stress around whether or not females can orgasm, and why they don't orgasm during sex I'm going to break it down for you The most common way for a woman to achieve orgasm is through clitoral stimulation When it comes to penetrative sex, a lot of women will not be able to orgasm There are studies that show that less than 30% of women will achieve orgasm from intercourse on a regular basis This means that 70% of women do not orgasm or don't orgasm every single time they have sex
Those who do orgasm during intercourse often do so because they have clitoral stimulation in addition to vaginal stimulation whether it's from a toy, a vibrator, or their hand There are other studies that show that only 20% of women can orgasm without any sort of clitoral stimulation That means 80% of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm! So, if you're one of those women who cannot achieve an orgasm through just vaginal stimulation That's totally normal! 80% of women can't! If you can't achieve orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone it doesn't mean that sex isn't going to feel good what it means is that if it's important for you to have an orgasm or if it's important for your partner that orgasming is one of the goals you need to incorporate other things Most women will report that they need a hand, oral sex or some form of toy to achieve an orgasm through clitoral stimulation Unfortunately, there are a lot of messages out there that lead women or partners to think that women should be able to orgasm every time they have sex If you think about how sex is portrayed on TV in movies, or in pornography it often paints this picture of sex being this huge event that leads to this screaming orgasm for the woman When really, this isn't always the case Ultimately, it creates these unrealistic standards that women and their partners compare themselves to and can lead to a lot of stress, disappointment or even women who will fake orgasms so that way they can appear normal or protect their partners from feeling like failures It's sad because not being able to orgasm through penetrative sex is SO NORMAL Most women need clitoral stimulation in order to achieve an orgasm So for partners of women who don't orgasm during sex don't get mad, don't be sad it's not your fault- it's just the way that women are built Incorporate other things, incorporate clitoral stimulation You're more likely to successfully give her an orgasm For you women who cannot orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone Don't feel terrible! You are SO NORMAL and don't forget most women are exactly the same way where they can't orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone Don't fake it! Instead, focus on other ways to achieve orgasm such as clitoral stimulation If you liked this video don't forget to SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL for more videos coming every week FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER @KaseyLafferty INSTAGRAM KaseyLafferty on FACEBOOK KL Therapy or GO TO MY WEBSITE wwwKLTherapycom for more information and to book an appointment with me Until next time!
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