Watch How Tim And Susan Do The Expanded Orgasm | GinaConspiracy
We are so honored to be here with Susan and Tim Welcome tonight and thank you so much for being on our show tonight
It's always a blast to have you But just to plant the seed now, we love hearing stories of either how you met or what's your philosophy as a couple I know you guys have been together for almost 20 years? 25 Yeah So your secret for keeping it, and I know you guys have a wonderful story so we're looking forward to hearing that, but i'll give them a little bit about your official bio as well and i met Susan and Tim actually a wedding a few years ago and instantly hit it off because we both love love and we want couples to be really enjoying you know the combination of having a play me we're having a lot of fun having your sanctuary where they feel safe and they can explore and express themselves and having passionate lover something that keeps you know that really exciting in their relationship and I think it's been over a decade that you've been with a personal life media now is that right yes we just celebrated our ten-year anniversary of starting our company together to teach people how more intimacy and passion and the ripple effect that you have created has been awesome and reaching men and women singles and couples it's been fantastic you can see here at the depth and breadth actually this is just a slice of the depth and breadth of their work here and you know from their online sex said courses and steamy sex said which we're gonna give you a free gift to give you a little stepping stone towards that later on today with russia and i love that product even the most basic video that just the sensual massage forget all the sex tips but the central 5qu that led to some pretty steamed PE things right there so we'll tell you more about that but that's just one other tip of the iceberg there's expanding her orgasm tonight the multi orgasmic lever and you might have heard of some of these even the female liquid orgasm I mean really and what I love is it's not just her content but she's working with wonderful people like Jim Benson and Tallulah soo Lee's is that how you pronounce your name sunnis now the best to the bathroom say that's the last yes and there is so much junk out there in the in the text advice realm or just weird and I just love that we what you've done with a variety of the products that you've had their so welcome thanks for being here and I'm yeah let's give the audience a little bit about who Tim and Susan are for themselves and for the world we just love your ripple effect well I guess I'd like to start out by saying that the reason that team and I have now been in business for decades helping other people have more passion and intimacy is because when we were about 10 years into our marriage we almost got divorced and we didn't want to lose each other we were best we are best friends but we have stopped being lovers or it was not going well for us and there are so many things that come into play in a relationship a long-term monogamous relationship that make it hard for you to keep getting excited about having sex together and everyone that we were kindled our passion by going out and learning how to have sex and once we did that our sex life just keeps getting better than that we just keep getting more deeply connected more orgasmic they just get one comfortable together and we got into it goes through cycles but it's good solid now love to be together be carve out time I know one of the things we're going to talk about is why people stick it scheduled sacks and click finish scheduling sex is so important but really what I i like to talk about for just a second is what it was like before you learned how to get me turned on and want you again and what you think maybe the most pivotal things that you didn't know that you know now that you tell someone else like why if if someone is in in a relationship and they feel like they're just the passion is gone it's going through the motions what what do you know they don't know what hope can you give them room I so when I think about what it was like before obviously when I first met it was super hot super sexy were crazy about each other and the sex was really good and i was very happy Susan was happy yeah five to ten years in it wasn't quite so good like 10 years in we really were not having great sex it was disconnected mercy facts i was giving mercy sex as little as I possibly could yeah and I ok you know and how hot is that like fine with miserable and again feel really bad about myself like I will did like you know I was living with this gorgeous girl who didn't want to have sex with me it was freakin miserable haha you're like in the candy store you can't eat any of it bag I don't rationalize reason we did all tomato kajol have a feeling he's going to have any of the deal we work to the couple ones where they had like birthday sex and Christmas sex I was like excuse me captain but i'm here to scheduling sex but just twice a year as the deal I don't think something does the very inspiring bad deal yeah but don't know what else what are you gonna do ya like you know i'll take it haha tomorrow though the one of the things that was pivotal absolutely pivotal for us was me learning how to escalate give Susan small offers so it's not like hey baby you wanna have sex tonight because like you know guys always want to have sex and I would always ask she's all like yeah so I learned one of the key things i learned is don't start their start with like you want a foot massage or a background where can I get you a cup of tea or beer you know draw bath or something like that and then slowly escalate step-by-step another actually call that we have one called show not tell you know how when you're in school well in writing and they say don't don't just you know tell them when he walked into the house you know he took the extra large step you know his stride the cadence head you know that you want to actually create this whole experience in something because that was very much the dynamic with Roger and I recipe like let's have sex like well it's a great idea but I was looking for a little more seduction than that i'm super excited to learn about your seduction tips oh yeah and a lot later on the show well that's one of the big ones we call it running the menu of small offers using something called erotic and that comes from our seduction trilogy program that dr paddy Taylor wrote for us that really takes into account the difference between a woman being whether she's you know where should she turned on you control turned off and how to move in to turn on by moving hurt or pleasure and very small increments and being able to read where she is there so that it can escalate her offers so that was a breakthrough small offers the gym was mentioning it was a really big break and I'm like that on the reading i'm 10-8 place that I know we're getting into tips here is just so good but whatever it is it's all it's like a great dinner party conversation right I'm but am i curious and when the reading your woman is so important like what's too much what's not enough and certainly knows that if we give all sorts of confusing signals as well so did you and that did you have that skill did you develop that skill because there's what you do for the offers but there's reading is it received or is it not received because i know we can be confusing i'm still learning not get better at it every day so yeah it's uh it's not easy it's never easy although i think that's one of the things like as you get to know your partner better over time it does become easier and you do start to realize oh you know I see you know it it and maybe it's for just better communicating but the reading does seem to become easier one of the things that I it is that you were the big things you can go for is is your woman I high-strung in the moment and you need to call her nervous system down or is she kind of meeting to be picked up and turn on switch on and knowing which direction to start helps you make the right kind of offers also I you really one of the things we really want to talk about on this session with you Gavin rush is our arts and orgasm practice itunes even worn his own pants um let me see if I can have them here so these pants that he has on there like petite japanese fishermen pants and I one of the things that we do have that forget to get us the right done things that animal those and he gives me a due date or an expanded orgasm date and a due date stance for do stands for deliberate orgasm and when we schedule sex we actually don't schedule intercourse because that's to make an offer right we schedule and a due date is basically what you were talking about you were talking about how much you love the sensual massage and the that was the beginning of explosive dates for you I'm it's basically a gentle massage but it's an orgasmic gentle massage that has some very specific scope steps which were happy to explain i just want to see to your your process here but uh this is what rares and this is what he does he makes me an offer because we already have a good sex like now he makes me an offer for due date or I asked him for one we've been doing it now going over jacket once to three times a week for Milwaukee because we love doing it but it takes you no time to settle down how about making day it's pretty much yeah I know when people talk about having sex three times a day I think you have a light like I spoke with it sounds like it was all quickies but I don't know short sex people have very very short sets and that's the other thing we wanted to talk about later is engorgement closes the orgasm gap orgasm gap is the fact that ninety percent of the time or more a man can have an orgasm from intercourse from penetrative sex yet less than half if we're lucky women can have an orgasm from penetrative sex so mad as always hungry for penetrative sex and so a woman you know it can be very difficult for her because the missing ingredient one of the biggest ones is something called engorgement and we want to talk about clitoral erections and we want to talk about how you use the due date for the expanded orgasm day to get these clitoral erections that actually helped her have penetration orgasm so she wants to have a lot more intercourse with you so this whole thing really needs together awesome awesome and I love me just the even though the word engorgement it's like you know you're building curiosity so let's not forget to all of these awesome tips we do have one tip that Roger and I are going to share today for this particular topic and let's remind everyone where we are in this topic and then we will dive back in but i love this one I hear you're really talking about is cultivating you know in this seduction it's not the time beforehand we did that if you have few weeks ago where we looked at you know what's this space in between when you're just doing the dishes and even that you know leads into seduction all of these you know kind of connect with each other and now that as it starts into the seduction which then leads into the during which of course no would be engorgement but if you're not putting all these puzzle pieces together as Russia's found things can kind of in a heartbeat sometimes you know you like an elbow to the wrong place and that we've actually had to learn that once you've got on the on Grahams how to stay in those on-ramps as well one of the things that we're going to be talking briefly about uh in the session is agreements and boundaries that create passion and one of the things that you're going to share your fantasies that makes it really safe to share your fantasies we like it as a car game sometimes we'll just tell the up tell our lover one of our most dirty impossible fantasies while we're driving in the car and we would really hate to do it that way because we have an agreement that just because I share the fantasy doesn't mean I want to do it it's just a fantasy and so they're out there is no expectation that this is anything that's gonna happen this is just crazy stuff I'm thinking in my head and other law nice to preface it that way who are a lot of people especially the women that I talk to you they have a lot they have many fewer fantasy going through their head because they don't masturbate as much as men do to show one works a lot longer for them might need to cycle through new ones are getting plenty more experience with and think well I think men generally are masturbating more frequently sometimes they're watching pornography and getting ideas which women are doing or they're just thinking things up that they've seen and masturbating because for man his job is to keep his tank top dog he's always got to have fresh sperm because he's primarily driven to replicate himself and so for women they just do the choosing don't need to have anything ready and topped off they go in to their obligations and so guys just generally are really really well kick your butt at Fantasy generally the girls against the guys got team for fantasy but really good at fantasy if her guy brings it out her and the way that he brings out her is by making it safe by having a boundary or an agreement that it's just talk it's just you know dirty talk fun things to talk about and another thing that you can do that's really fun is and we do this sometimes while tim is giving me a due date or a foreign-owned they're called different things that I can explain that later but while he's giving it massage that gives me orgasms little expanded orgasm date he'll pick something who knows a turn-on to me and he'll tell me a story about it while he's struggling can be very hundred that's a really fun game replay now and when I like that game tell me already did exactly supersexy don't get stories that I one of the things i remembered another thing that i did before the pivot and that was uh i would sometimes like shut Susan down when she would maybe share something that she was vulnerable batters sexy thought she had my class example Oh anything I if I were to like if you if you were something very sexy yeah and then i might say oh maybe that's a little too sexy or something like that haha would shut you down here and then over a couple of years like that was it was a horrible thing to do I have no idea it's kind of like what your program to do culture I think maybe a lot of times but I now I've learned that it's like I just bring it out and bring it out bring it out bring it out so that like she wear something sexy I'm like that's sexy outfit i love that outfit that book i'm always trying to get over to where more and more people mr
doing basket is this to see theories like no to start the concert party girl well you can wear pants that I'm just gonna have to take them off you skip the goodwill glad to hear that i know thats that makes me feel so happy because one of my favorite things is to have little hinges that swing big doors i'm all about how simple thing make a difference new age difference and we're going to 12 inches open big doors just swing big doors like one purple that great like you can stretch out that moment of climax and come on yourself in a sensation and teaching raj how to keep you in that hole that stroke keep delivering this rope that you're getting off on yeah that's yeah we better take it was ok we're going to get through that we have a dinner party coming over after the show and awesome reach you guys like to start well I think we're going to talk because we talked a little bit about agreements and scheduled sex getting out of your heads extinguishment all of those things what I'd like to do that actually like to show you how we do a due date wow i just setup ok you got your only Lancelot part of the way there already we're gonna show you how we set up for an expanded orgasm day we do this once a week pretty much once a week without fail yeah but we could we would do it two or three times a week given all the top you know more time we usually leave about half an hour for it and the agreements that we have for doing this are that I can ask for one whenever I want and didn't really never turns we go um I I don't have I have no there's no of agreement for intercourse or even for anything beyond the due date or the extended orgasm date there's no not this is like it's it's a competitive but the thing is that when you can ask for it and there's no expectation then you can lie there and you can get your genitals engorged and engorge means filled with blood so just like a man's penis gets erect from blood coming into the corpus cavernosa a woman has basically a penis up inside her that's her clitoral structure and some of the other sponges that are inside her and you want to get you want to give her hard on basically you want to give your lady and direction but it's not one that you're going to see much of that you can actually all you can give her a clitoral erection and not just the tip of her clitoris that the shaft it's a baby penis and it goes inside her and then little legs go inside her and little bulbs are in there and they all get pop top and swollen and gorge which is what will close that orgasm gap so she can have orgasms from penetration and so i'm gonna show you how we set it up I'm gonna tilt the monitor down a little bit and I'm gonna have Tim get into his only position and i'm going to get in to it with him and we're going to tell you we're going to show you how we do it so okay tilt this down just a little bit so tense usually up on a pillow or two and he has a really good backrest the thing that's most important is that as a man or the doer he could be a woman you want to make sure the door is very comfortable so that they can just completely relax we're gonna lock into a up olympic connection he's gonna feel me I'm going to feel him we're going to come into one con joined state of feeling we were going to meld into one when we do this and the way I do it is I have a pillow behind my head look at all these feelings we have so many clothes cause I'm gonna put pillows pillows in the front oh we have feather pillow that these better the little arse over me all over the place because I was junior my left leg and then we'll be a pillow and see these cats are great that he wears their like split his legs are scratching like the scratchy scratchy all dudes and then I put a pillow here on top of this when he's got under his leg so its lack of a little down here nice i kind of slide in down here how is the video can you see me I don't know yet pretty good yeah i'm down here there's my leg open and open and now you take over explain what you do so I will start displaying massaging your cause maybe your tummy and her modest that the mouth i'm working my way in I'll do this for like five minutes or so just warming up the whole area of around for John yeah I to know you got home we can't see your face unfortunately but that doesn't really just lying here this is not a good model doesn't baby and then i'll holla work on her lips and massage those a massage more on the bond so it's kind of like zone 2 i'm like working my way in like three two one and then it's on to allston like another five minutes and the whole idea is I'm working on the board getting blood in that area getting it all nice and fluffy and gorge and been removed his own one and i'll actually i'll actually switch loops this outer area i'm going to use coconut oil on but when i switch to the inner area that someone where I'm actually touching her labia minora the inner lips and her clit i'll switch to avocado oil and it's just a nice smooth sweet oil and then all focus on doing the strokes and this was the other pivotal thing I learned was expanded orgasm practice talk about how you place your hands-free opening strokes the bread-and-butter certainly explain what what is it is it's actually a structured stroking technique now lie down and structure taking in front of the common because you can't really see it now but I put my hand under Bob I let my bottom yeah and then under there and then I rest my thumb right on her and tritus and that provides the entrance to the giants into the vagina I and that provides like some ground because the at the same tana after I've done my three open strokes where I'm essentially flying blue on her labia minora just not touching your clit like a building that anticipation so this is the part where bring her up up even to the point where because you know we've done this so many times and Susan knows what's happening she may even start to have orgasms before i even touch your clip yeah so it's really fun to like build that up but i do need to make sure that I don't bring her up too fast that's one orgasm and chill kind of like crash down so i need to slowly stair-step about it slowly bring it out and that's part of reading her in the moment and also feeling her which is one of the reasons why i really like to have my thumb why don't you try this because I think feel the contractions like it she started to have a lot of contractions I noticed slow it down put some pressure on the top to bring her back down into her body she doesn't come up too fast you know with the right pace as a different for different women or and probably different not just different women but a different moment local that's why i was asking earlier about reading because that's importantly can't learn how one likes it there's some generalizations but it changes all the time every cigarette yeah i think what is it it's a new it's a new day it's a new pussy music and you know it if that doesn't work it was working three opening still be I are the essentially it's it's it's part of the structure so I I haven't touched your clit yet but I'm on building up to it applying the loop she knows that it's coming and she's starting to anticipate that on that third stroke i'll come actually right up the middle right in between the inner lips and then just slowly just landed right on the head of the clip and then start just this very very very gentle like tiny little stroke just like that of course my hands are covered with off so it's all license hope this isn't even mentioned earlier you had mentioned foaming and this is called and said a due date and so are they are those different practices are they similar how are they similar and different because I've heard of the roaming before but I haven't practiced it ourselves though there's an organization that created this stroking technique that allows you to take a woman into an orgasm and then hold her in that orgasm let her stretch that orgasm like taffy and political on that and have more and more orgasms it I've come for over an hour you just get tired and you need to drink water from matches like don't know why don't you offer an hour but usually we just do you know a half an hour and then he takes a breaking stretches legs tonight i play with deaf or something like that you know and if I want some more he'll do some more but what the this this set of techniques is standardized because works and our version of it is called expand her orgasm tonight and we teach all the strokes we have an entire due date in video close up so you can see exactly what you're doing we have audios that explain how it works and we have 21 playdates they're called sandbox date where you can grow different facets of learning how to be a good doer or to be done well and this 21 of those games that people could play with what we did was we broke it down into 21 games to play to learn how to do this how to feel each other really well drop into that limited connection together so that he can take over my nervous system and take me on an orgasmic ride that gets me fully engorged and filled up with orgasm so that i'm super turned on and I just generally everything feels great so I don't you when you call it expand for orgasm tonight that insinuates that you can learn these skills and apply them immediately I which I love that it's like when you learn something I mean like this because I'm going to get the coconut avocado oil out yeah you just watch the watch the technique videos and you'll get the whole system you'll get the three opening stroke to get the house sit and have a set yourself up you get that I'm how to how to find her spot you and you'll learn as the woman how to let him know when he's on the spot and he'll learn how to stay deliver he'll learn how to speak which takes you to the next level he'll learn things like intentional downstrokes there's a lot of things you can learn in this practice as you get better and better and better it's a gift that keeps on giving but again as orgasmic meditation walking several cut that stuff definitely suffer I'm station taught by one taste in that the strokes are the same what's different is that that's really a general massage by people who are lovers and our version is the lovers version that has I contact and it's up it's very much more of a tantra lovers technique rather than just something I mean get your pussy stroked by someone else and have an orgasm so it's the same techniques they are applicable everyone and anyone to do them all women can come this way all men and women can do a woman and have her have this our version is just the lovers version and wall it's a game kids are were for me it helped me for the first time at forty five or six or seven somewhere in there have my first penetration orgasms it was the thing that helped me on really just go from being I could have a few small more males oriented climax is you know I like it come and be done kind of a thing and I could do a couple of those but now like you learned stretching that moment of orgasm out you can just have an incredible time and so it makes it so much easier for us to want to have more sex together after 25 years marriage because I know he can deliver incredible sensation to me and then when he does that I'm so turned on for him and I wanted to even closer to him it's just a really great experience for couples it was removing the second first product me everything yeah amazing anything well we can't wait to check that out now are the different things that you spoke about on on these points this tip slider there are additional things that you want to share what we've been jumping and jumping around a bit on your knees yeah we're talking about being a tapestry touchdown also why you think it's getting texts because you expect it to be Pat you expect that if you schedule it it's gonna be boring it's not gonna be boring if you have expanded orgasm practice together and you don't do it to any woman if you're a guy and let's just say your divorce your re-entering the dating market it's a very safe sex kind of a thing to do with a woman before you ever get involved in anything that's like intercourse originally get tested before you go you know that's all sketch that whole thing because there's so many things going around out there so scheduling your expanded orgasm dates is the workaround to keeping your sex hot agreements and boundaries like I don't have it all it all he does is give me some orgasms for 20 minutes and then that's all I want that day doesn't get mad because he knows there's always tomorrow so it's not like getting recruited which is great on getting out of your head and into your body is really it's about him taking control of my nervous system and calming me down and taking me into that list of an expanded to orgasm date that really allows us to let go into pleasure together that that expanded we're going to date gets you out of your head and into your body just relax and surrender so that's important it's it didn't gorgeous you because it's a pussy massage that moves into a stroking technique that gives you orgasms so you can close that orgasm gap and I then you know you can go from there but really it's it to me the expanded orgasm experience for couples is the number one technique that we teach that I think makes the biggest impact for any person sex life both man or woman and I would also say that there are a lot of benefits for the man to be coming a doer a good stroker maybe you want to talk to you that goes well he is a stroker i love that i'm going to write that one down because of its stroke creator Kurt I think the heat benefit up Bob learning how to be learning the stroking technique is that it's a really easy yes for Susan so it and scheduling that instead of scheduling sex is just so much easier because you know what we're essentially scheduling a massage and she's pretty much always going to say yes to a massage that there's the container around so now for me I and I love to get my hands on her gorgeous Sione like I just love to get my hands on its completeness or it's very sweet and if things go well and you know most of the time they go well but not all the time sometimes I'm like now I can't settle I just no so that sometimes I Drive just can't get an everbody which case that we just say all right you know well that's watching television most people know what you doing tomorrow let's let's set up a massage date for talking it's also really good for general atrophy so for example um it if you haven't had a lot of sex it gets everything juicy and flowing again if you are going through menopause and you're feeling like there's ground glass in your vaginal canal bringing a whole lot engorgement very slowly to your yoni get sort of that problem and also you can have a due date for your man to show a lot of women are like well that's he's really one way and I say oh no it's not because a man's job and his primal desire is to give this woman incredible pleasure so you are giving him the gift of your orgasmic pleasure you're surrendering your nervous system g2 him you're here you're entrusting him with your pleasure that's huge for guys and women don't really understand that yeah but you can also take him with your hands you can give him a due date and maybe you'll have us back next year again and we'll do the man's due date and tell you about that yes ok it doesn't have to be a year we have our next season coming ok guys I don't know what let's show where people get some of the more information and your free gift here so we have up on screen you want to talk to a little bit yeah me and also we've been talking about the expanded orgasm which I minute be looking for myself but I've also the the product of theirs that we have used that we mentioned not just on this show but on many shows is when we talk about steamy sex said and so Susan want to let him know a little bit about this free gift because as we said that the earlier part of the show this is such a great one no matter which video you're watching you know from just creating the vibe elearning some really awesome new techniques to even just moving past embarrassment barriers you know even just going through the DVD series we were like honey look at what this one is ok which one do you want to watch first I suggest that you watch them all one by one by one to do all the things to each other that are in the there's over 200 techniques and every time tim and i watch that door because we all went out all the time like all right we're going to have a sale on our siriusxm program like I just need to write a few more emails about it so what you know what am I gonna I'm gonna notice about it when I watch it every time I watch them like we used to do that and we forgot that I ball behind before but now I can't stop thinking about it I need that done to be immediately I want to do it to you all of the reins thing and I was like I'm never get their respective shoot that management its created for couples to watch together it's the it's like the antidote porn it's hard connected lovemaking techniques for couples and it's safe for you to watch them together so that you can learn new things to do to each other you can you cannot think of all this good stuff there are so many great things in there but the free gift is just my gift about how to have a really sexy fantasy life together as a couple how to have agreements and boundaries suggested agreements and boundaries that will make it really easy for your partner to open up to you and share their fantasies or even how you can fuel their fantasies and give them ideas because that's what you did for me at first when I just couldn't even think about anything that would even turn me on I just like blue blue like you don't like there was like it was nothing going on there for fancy perspective and so he's him slowly taught me how to have a fantasy life and share it with him and I put a lot of that you put all of that into this free video and then when we get the video i also send you an e-book with all the information because i like you Gabi I really like how you have both the video of us as well as the slide presentation because i think it's really great to learn in multiple ways you can just type in the search bar at the top of our website expanded orgasm and you'll see 30 articles talking about it with links to it things like that where you can go to expand for orgasm tonight but Gabby for your Christmas present office sending you a bottle of organic avocado oil from amazon i think i was trying to me like a browncoat HIV holy work out in public olive oil it's very viscous very nice a hundred percent pure and organic it's great for stroking yeah and we'll be sending you that with a copy of expand her orgasm tonight thank you for having a little what i was saying you're dividing both you to just the life of a couple to be with and engage with and so informative and they're usually you know like a little bit like on the edgy side when you're like okay that is pants on and we're going to do the due date I was like okay really and where is this going today always keeps his daughter to lady toes which I just love as well last night i'll just give you those links and urls again to find out more about Susan and Tim and personal life media alright I gotta get a little-a little screen shot of the two of you here on the computer oh my gosh you're so are cute i just took a picture you guys I'll send it to you this is why we like to have couples him again I know you're the the the tech genius behind the screen behind the curtain and it's a rarity for you to join these interviews but it's always so much fun and just make such a difference to be with the couple together to see her reach over and touch your hair and you reached over mid-interview put your arm around her it's just obviously the modeling would have been the same without to hip thank you so much for joining us and contributing I'm all that you had two couples and single people get it thank you love you love you love you yeah thanks so much for being on the show tonight and for the audience we hope to see you next week same relationship fighting games fights clean sex dirty time and channel Wednesday's five-thirty pm pacific standard time thanks so much for joining us and here's to you having a plate for peaceful passionate relationship because it's worth it and you deserve it yes will you choose features for that right hip hooray for playful useful passionate relationship goodnight everyone Cuban
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