Too Many Orgasms Is a Real Thing | GinaConspiracy
Oh hey everybody This week on Ask Cristen I’m talking about painful orgasms and while that might sound like an oxymoron oh, oh, oh, they are real
[Impact sounds] So this week’s Ask Cristen question is coming from Jessica Andersen 9 who wants to know, ‘I have a really embarrassing question I often have multiple orgasms’ This does not sound embarrassing so far by the way Jessica ‘There’s usually about a 10 second gap between about 15 in a row
These last at least 23 seconds each’ Woah ‘And I can get them out of the blue This can leave me in a bit of discomfort Is this normal?’ First up a quick differentiation
In this video I’m going to focus in on the spontaneity plus pain issue rather than talking about painful orgasms in general which is a penis and vagina inclusive video that I would be totally happy to make in the future if y’all want it I wanted to talk a little bit about this embarrassment factor Before you do anything else I want you to treat your body like a friend If your friend was experiencing pain you probably wouldn’t be like ugh, that is so embarrassing You would probably in a very kind and gentle way figure out the best way that you could help
And that’s how you need to think of your body After you’ve paid attention to the symptoms, I mean it sounds like you kind of know what the pattern is I would absolutely, definitely consider talking to a doctor or nurse practitioner And let me bring up the embarrassment factor again, if you go to said doctor or nurse practitioner and describe what’s happening and he or she makes you feel embarrassed or slut shames you in any kind of way get out, do not internalize all of that nonsense, get out, find another doctor As for whether spontaneous orgasms are normal, they absolutely happen I’m going to talk about my vagina for a second
I went jogging last week and this normally doesn’t happen After I finished jogging I was kind of you know like walking it off and I had the sensation of being of the verge of an orgasm for like an hour When your body feels that way for long enough any kind of pleasurable sensation quickly gives way to pain But considering the frequency of these multiple, spontaneous orgasms and the pain associated with it, it reminded me of maybe a mild case of what’s called persistent genital arousal disorder For really intense cases of it, women are completely debilitated, they are having upwards of 100 orgasms a day, they can’t use tampons, they can’t ride in bumpy trains, they can’t even wear high heels because it shifts the pelvis in such a way that it sets off this nerve sensation that is in no way what we think of when we think of orgasmic
And because it’s relatively new in the medical literature doctors still aren’t entirely sure what causes it although they have identified all sorts of possibilities It’s also worth noting too that the age of onset totally varies There are some women who experience it their whole lives and some who don’t get it until after menopause But aside from going to see a medical professional which again I recommend, there are some things at home that you can try out which are just good for you in general: practicing mindfulness, up your cardiovascular exercise and when it’s happening, just generally distracting yourself has been shown in pretty much every first person account of this that I have read to be extremely effective You are not alone, you are not a weirdo, our bodies just have minds of their own sometimes
But now dear viewers I want to know if you’ve ever experienced this, does this sound at all familiar to you or are you able to reach an orgasm without any kind of stimulation? Let me know in the comments below Oh and also, keep it clean, please Thanks to everybody who watched and commented on last week’s Ask Cristen video ‘How to Stop Sex Guilt’ Rainepanda said, ‘Me and my husband were just super honest with everything aka EVERYTHING’ – All caps – ‘I did before that I felt ashamed about and I was able to realize how I truly can trust my husband completely Feeling comfortable with myself and my husband made a huge difference cause I realized it’s no one else’s business but ours
’ Sina said, ‘It’s worth noting that some of that shaming that is directed towards women is so strong that it leaks into some men’s minds too, especially if the kind of sex acts they’re into are considered feminine I know first hand because I like bottoming but it’s hard to get rid of the shame’ And always ask your questions so I can give you some answers And possibly stories that you probably didn’t really want to know about me and my vagina
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